“The Dude-Babe Paradox”
No one’s had a truly satisfying answer for this for me yet.
Are they interchangeable? Does one have a shelf life?
It’s weird when women call their bfs “dude” but for guys it’s okay???
“Babe” seems really intimate and there will probably be a point where it’ll just slip out of your mouth, effortlessly, which means you’re really comfortable around them and then have to reel that back in for a bit.
“Dude” relies heavily on tone. It can be dismissive, endearing, pleading, pleased. It can also be the more public version of “babe” if need be. Saying “babe” in a group, that’s a big moment.
In public “Babe” is probably best whispered, with your hand at the small of his back.
Reserve “dude” for all other uses.
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